“I don’t have time” is fast becoming one of the great mantras (and excuses) of this present age. The fact that there is a touch of truth in every lie is definitely the case here. The truth is that we have time and we don’t. The lie is in why this is the case. We say that we don’t have time (because of factors outside of us in our environment) and that is partially true because time is what we “make” more than what we have.
We have all been given the same 168 hours per week, something we can only say about time as we are all given different amounts of money, talent, relationships, knowledge, etc.. This equality is one of the reasons time is one of the most important resources we have, and what makes what we make with time, a most critical activity of life.
The fact is that everything we have from how we think to our possessions to our careers to our relationships, we have made with the time we have been given. This then obviously begs the questions of: “what time are we making and what are we are we making with that time?”
This first question is one of priority. When we say we do not have time for something we are really saying it is not a priority, and often this is justified as most of us are pursuing too many priorities to begin with. I begin to learn this lesson on September 11, 2001 when the events of that morning stopped me dead to refocus in order to make time for informing myself and to see about my community. It was so striking to me how quickly so many important things could become not so. I learned that for the rest of my life, I have a choice to make time for what is important to me because we only ever have time for what we make time for.
This second question is one of focus. It is difficult to maintain focus on what is important in the midst of all the urgent and unimportant things that come up continually. It is easy to use time to attend to the urgent and unimportant while neglecting the making of those memories, relationships, education and results that are truly important to us owing to a lack of focus. A critical factor in making “what’s important” with the time we make is learning to say no to the urgent and unimportant, and if this is a challenge for you see my earlier post, “No: The New Yes”.
Take time today to consider how you prioritize and what you make with your time. Are you making important results, relationships, memories, people, objects, etc. with your time or are you making procrastination, worry, poor plans which lead to urgent emergencies, focus on unimportant issues, etc.. As we take more responsibility for making time for what important and making what’s important with that time we make, we can move from a posture of “ I do not have time” to “ I make time for what is truly important to me”. Now isn’t that a better more powerful way to approach life? I do and am interest in your replies, pro and con.